Is sharing a home with your spouse when you’re splitting crazy? No. January is often referred to as “divorce month” because many people wait till after the holidays to make the decision to file for divorce. It is also a good time to come up with a temporary plan...
This article by Dr. Ann Buscho was originally published on the Discressionary Love website, June30, 2022 This is the story of a dying memoir, and how my sister died twice. Judith and I sat in my sister’s sunny garden outside San Francisco. She was so proud of that...
More and more often, clients are contacting me to help with setting up successful nesting, or birdnesting arrangements. I am glad that more people know about nesting now because a successful nesting agreement can stabilize your family and keep your children’s lives...
Gray divorce is rising. There are big differences, emotionally and financially. Key Points The divorce rate of people over 50 is increasing, even while the overall divorce rate is declining. Some decide to divorce when they’re ready to trade the stability of...
Many of my clients have come to me with this situation. One spouse has decided to divorce and the other spouse doesn’t want to. Why does this happen and what can you do about it? It is unusual for both spouses to arrive at the decision to divorce together. Usually,...
Lisa (not her real name) tells me, “My parents wondered why we aren’t going out together like we used to. They used to babysit for us every week, but it has been months now. I know something is wrong, but I can’t figure it out. We just aren’t happy; we aren’t having...
